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Tuesday, January 11, 2011

God's gift to moms: Mommy Gut

If I had one iota of advice to offer new moms is that you should always listen to your Mommy Gut.
Camdyn is an amazing little girl - she is full of energy and LOVES to eat. (19 pounds at 5 months!) Tuesday, December 21st, 2010 was the day of Camdyn's vaccinations. I am weary of vaccinations and I requested that they be split up. This day, she received the second half of the vaccines she should have had at her 4 month checkup. That night, Camdyn was VERY fussy. More so than usual. She always has her "witching hour" where she is tired and cranky, but I could tell she just didn't feel well. I chalked it up to being sore from her shots. The next morning, Camdyn refused to eat all of her bottle. She pushed it away after 2 ounces. She was lethargic all morning, and was very whiney. I had this overwhelming gut feeling that something was very wrong. I feared that she was having a vaccine reaction and called my doctor's office. I explained what was going on, and the nurse asked me if she was running a fever. When I told her no, she told me that kids could act fussy for up to 72 hours after receiving shots and without a fever, there was nothing they could do.
That night, I changed Camdyn's diaper before bed. In it, I found a blood-tinged discharge that shook me. I knew that this was NOT normal. The next morning, I called the doctor's office and demanded that they see us. Dr. Landis was in the office this morning. He looked at her, and thought that she perhaps had a UTI. This diagnosis required a catheter to confirm. I helped the nurses hold down my baby as they inserted the cath. She didn't have very much urine in her bladder- only enough to confirm a UTI, but not enough to also perform a urine culture to determine its cause. Dr. Landis asked us to feed her so that we could draw out some more urine. We tried breastmilk, formula and pedialyte. Camdyn refused it all. Because of his fear of dehydration, he sent us to Children's Hospital in Atlanta. Here they hooked her up to an IV, drew out more urine, took some blood and pumped an antibiotic into her. They sent us home that night.

The next morning at 4:30 am, my phone rang. A nurse from Children's was calling to let me know that Camdyn's blood culture came back positive for gram negative rods. This was not good and we needed to bring Camdyn back right away. We were admitted, and then finally told that the final diagnosis was EColi. We had to spend 5 days in the hospital. (Not exactly the first Christmas we had imagined celebrating with Camdyn!) Watching my little girl have to go through so much pain was the hardest thing I have ever had to endure. The ecoli was in her urine, causing a UTI and now in her blood; she was one sick little girl.
I knew something was wrong and had I listened to the original nurse's advice, I would have let Camdyn go on for 72 hours, and who knows what kind of damage the EColi could have wreaked in that span of time. Instead, I listened to my Mommy Gut and my baby is back to her normal, sassy self.


4 Weeks Early

From the very beginning, Camdyn has had a mind of her own!



Friday, July 23rd, my parents left to go out of town for a wedding. My mom's parting words to me were "Don't go into labor while we're gone." "Don't worry," I replied, "I have 4 more weeks until she is due!"

Sunday, July 25th started out like any other day. We had gone to church in the morning and then went to O'Charleys with our good friends, Rusty and Angie. My best friend Kelly called a little later that afternoon and together we got pedicures. We were joking that she would kill me if Camdyn came before her son, Jack. (We were pregnant together and Jack was due on Tuesday, while Camdyn wasn't due until August 21st.) At home, Bryan and I completed a few more items on our baby "to do" list. Then I settled in for the night upstairs. I was lying on the bed watching tv when I felt the urge to go to the bathroom. I stood up, and immediately, water gushed out. I thought I had just peed on myself! I went ahead to the bathroom and then picked up the phone to call my mom.

"Mom, how do you know when your water breaks?" "WHAT?! I thought I told you not to do this while we were gone!"

She encouraged me to go ahead and call the midwife and see what she thought. The midwife on duty told me to come on to the hospital. They could run a test on me to see whether it was pee or amniotic fluid that was now on my bedroom floor. The test showed amniotic fluid and Bryan and I were admitted into Northside Atlanta. My parents left Gatlinburg and came in the next morning. Labor was easy... My epidural was a-mazing. I was technically in labor for 25 hours, but I only pushed for 10 minutes.

My biggest fear was that Camdyn wasn't ready. What if she wasn't done cooking? I couldn't bear the thought of her being unhealthy. Well, Camdyn may have been 4 weeks early, but she weighed in at 7 pounds, 11 ounces and was 19.5 inches long. She was perfect! No breathing issues, no health problems.

The first moment I held her in my arms, I fell in love. Camdyn McKinley Barnes was beautiful, and our perfect gift from God.

And by the way, Camdyn was born 10:50 pm on July 26th, and baby Jack was born at 1:10 pm on July 27th. Sorry Kelly!

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

The Glider That Wouldn't...

Today was quite aggravating! After waiting a week for our glider to arrive at Babies R Us, we finally got the call to come pick it up at 2 pm today. Bryan had class until 1:45, so he just came straight from class to meet me at the store. I had a bad feeling about it as soon as I saw the box our glider AND ottoman came in. We are talking a square box that a 2 year old would have a hard time hiding in. I even mentioned to the guy who was loading it into our car, "So I take it LOTS of assembly is required." Yep.

We got the sucker home and immediately began the daunting task of assesmbling this huge glider and ottoman out of tiny little wooden parts. Now before I get further into the story, I really would like to say that I have assembled many things in my day. Since when do ALL baby items come with assembly instructions in pictures only - no words, no identifors, just random pictures that you are supposed to make sense out of????

Anyways, I digress. Bryan and I are SO unbelievably frustrated. The directions are as clear as mud, and the whole time we are assembling it, we have no idea if we are doing it right. After wrestling with this beast for 3 HOURS, we snapped the last piece of fabric onto the glider. We smiled proudly at each other - together we had slain this dragon. We rejoiced too soon....

Bryan sat down and craaaccckkk. It was a sound that made my stomach flop. The whole bottom section of our glider had split apart - the wood was unrepairably broken. Arrrgggghhh!!

I called Babies R Us and they will order us a new one once we return the busted one tomorrow. However, the thought of fighting with this thing one more time makes me seriously consider calling my dad and offering to feed him for his building services.

Friday, June 25, 2010

Letter to My Daughter

Dear Camdyn,

Hi sweet girl! It's mommy! I want you to know how much you are loved by your daddy and I. We are so excited to meet you and pray every day that you are happy and healthy when you arrive.

I remember the first time I truly felt you kick. I had felt little rumblings that I thought might be you moving around. But then, you kicked! My whole stomach jumped! I remember giggling! I tried to press on my belly so you would do it again for Daddy to feel it, but you stayed quiet.

Daddy finally felt you when we were in Gatlinburg on a mini-vacation. He was laying down with his hands on my belly, and sure enough, you gave him a good whack! He looked at me, and said with such excitement in his voice, "Was that her?!" It was so precious.

I have felt you every single day since then. You are very active! I like to think you will be athletic like your dad. I call you my little Olympic Hurdler! At first you were only active when I was still, espcially at bedtime. As you have gotten older though, you are more and more busy at all times of the day. Each turn, kick, and punch is precious. I count myself so blessed to be able to feel you every day.

In approximately 8 weeks, you and I will meet for the first time. I can't wait to hold you in my arms and kiss your sweet cheeks. In the meantime, keep growing, keep kicking, and know that your daddy and I are praying for you!

We love you so much!

Love,
Mommy

It's a...we're not sure...

At 21 weeks, it was time to learn our child's gender. Well, she was sitting with her legs crossed and we could see nothing. The doctor pounded on my belly, but she wouldn't move. Her best guess, it was a girl because boys usually paraded around their stuff. She would redo the scan in 3 weeks.

We came back at 24 weeks. She was facing my spine. What?! Best guess, it's a girl since she could make out faint little lines. We weren't about to paint the nursury yellow with butterflies for our son, so we needed to be sure.

We decided to go to Peek a Belly for a 3D scan. I decided to wait 3 more weeks before scheduling the appointment time in hopes that we would get a good picture of her face as well as...err.. her business. We showed up at Peek a Belly - Bryan had issued her a stern warning before going in. His exact words "Baby, you better cooperate if you want anything. We need to know if you are a boy or a girl and if you don't show us, you will not have anything in your room!"

Well, our baby finally listened - a little too well. She put her legs over her head and completely covered her face. The only thing we could tell about her was that she was a girl!

Welcome to the world, Camdyn McKinley!

The Beginning

I was inspired to begin this blog to record the adventures that Bryan and I's life is sure to hold as we are beginning a new adventure in life as parents.

The day we found out we were pregnant, I peed on the stick, thinking that it would come back negative just like all the rest had. You see, we had tried all summer and weren't able to get pregnant. We assumed that it just wasn't in God's plan for us right now and began making new plans. Bryan began going back to school to get his degree and I threw myself into teaching and helping Bryan pass English 101! Just as school was getting out for Christmas Break, I realized I hadn't had a period in quite awhile. I couldn't even recall when my last one was. So, Bryan and I bought a pregnancy test very casually that afternoon. We came home, unloaded groceries, and I took the test. Before when we had been trying, I had camped out in the bathroom, staring at the stick, willing it to show two lines. However, this time, I wasn't even thinking that pregnancy was really a possibility. I left the stick, went into the living room and sat down with Bryan to wait for the minutes to pass. After time was up, I made my way back to the bathroom and saw that the results said I was pregnant. I ran out of the bathroom, saying "Oh my gosh" over and over. Bryan just stared at me - I told him we were having a baby and he said "Are you joking around... no we're not...are you serious?!"
The emotions that we experienced for the next few days were that of a giddy excitement, and a truly scared nature. What were we going to do? We were a one income family now...Bryan was back in school...We just switched insurances and this one didn't have as good of coverage for maternity. Yet, in the midst of all the anxiousness, we felt a peace because this baby was truly a gift from God - precious and perfect and all in God's timing.
It's amazing to see God's hand at work - Since Bryan is back in school, he can stay at home during the day and go to school at night (No Day Care expenses). Our insurance has been just fine so far - it may be more expensive in the end, but the hospital won't respossess our child as we make payments!

We told our families on Christmas, and the look on everyone's faces was priceless. My mother had tears streaming down her face and my father couldn't keep from grinning. Let me just say, those two are going to make an amazing pair of grandparents because they were both such amazing parents. Bryan's mom was stunned as well - she couldn't be happier to be welcoming her first grandchild.